INCURABLE OPTIMISM
Based on Phil. 1:1-11
The things that can go wrong in Christian service could fill an encyclopedia.
Tal Bonham has recorded just a few. A note in the bulletin said, "Ladies
don't forget the rummage sale. It is a good chance to get rid of those
things not worth keeping around the house. Bring your husbands." He tells
of a pastor who preached on Samson, and unknowingly called him Tarzan through
the whole sermon. Another pastor, when he asked, who had special prayer
requests to raise their hands, had his mind on the previous business meeting,
and he said, "All those opposed, same sign." Another pastor introduced
the new choir director by saying, "We are delighted he is coming to lead
us in our sinning."
Even Billy Graham has made his occasional slip
of the tongue. The police chief of Memphis, Tenn. asked him to help promote
their traffic safety campaign. So Graham pointed to the large neon sign
which said 150 days. "You see that sign," he said, "That means that there
has been 150 days without a fertility." His mistake was not a fatality,
but it was terribly embarrassing. Several world renowned clergymen almost
fell off the platform in hysterics. Chuck Swindoll preaching on Joshua
at Jericho meant to say, "They circumscribed the wall," but it came out,
"They circumcised the wall." It brought the house down. The point is,
you have got to be an optimist to believe God can use such a fallible creature
as man to accomplish His will on earth.
Paul was just such an optimist,
and the main message of his letter to the Philippians is that everyone who
is a believer in Jesus Christ is obligated to be an optimist. Paul says,
"Rejoice in the Lord always," and just in case you didn't hear, he says
it again, "and again I say rejoice." Pessimism is one of the greatest sins
of the Christian, and Paul fights that negative spirit in this letter.
It is a sin for a Christian to be ever gripping, complaining, and grumbling.
Behind every silver lining some Christians can find a dark cloud. Their
pessimism becomes a bad habit. It is like swearing. Some people do it
so often they don't even realize they are doing it. So it is possible to
think negative so often that you don't even realize you are being a pessimist.
Like the persistent pessimist who grumbled to his neighbor, "My hen hatched
out 12 chicks, and all of them died but 11." The negative had distorted
a positive reality into a negative feeling. This habitual focus on the
negative leads to the unconscious prayer of the pessimist-"Give us this
day our daily dread." If you are going to focus your attention on the problems
of life, then anyone can be a pessimist, for problems are part of every
life, and Paul the optimist was no exception. He was not writing this letter
of joy from his yacht in the Mediterranean, or from a luxury villa in Rome.
It was written from a prison, and not from the warden's office either, but
from the dungeon. He was there unjustly for serving his Lord, and blessing
people with the good news of the Gospel. Yet, out of this unfair and unjust
suffering Paul does not fire off a bitter letter of anger, but a letter
of joy and optimism about the church and God's plan for it.
This
optimistic letter has been used of God to comfort, encourage, and challenge
Christians all through history to be optimists in a fallen world. Gene
Daille, the great French expositor told of how deeply the Indians of the
new world were impressed by the white man's ability to put marks on a piece
of paper, and then convey it to another at a great distance, and thereby,
bear a message to them. Letters were magic to them. It is marvelous to
us too when you think of it. By means of letters the Apostle Paul, long
dead, can go on speaking to the church all over the world, and urge them
to rejoice always, and be incurable optimists. Paul was the first in a
long line of Christian writers who wrote Christian literature in prison
that influenced the church to be optimistic in spite of problems.
We have to face this reality, however. Paul had more reason to be optimistic
about the Philippians than other churches to which he wrote. We need to
see honestly that Paul had a different relationship with this church then
other churches. There was a loving friendship here that was not the case
with others. He had to scold and blast the Corinthians, and focus on their
many defects in ways that do not happen in this letter. Paul Rees, the
one time great Twin City preacher, wrote, "Philippians gives us a Paul we
do not see, for example in Galatians or Corinthians. It is natural that
we wonder if the theologian has not been swallowed up in the friend."" Professor
David Smith calls it, "The sweetest and tenderest thing to be found in all
of Paul's correspondence."
The only church Paul ever accepted a
gift from was this church of Philippi. They supplied him many times, and
he writes in 4:16, "For even when I was in Thessalonica, you sent me aid
again and again when I was in need." William Barclay, the great New Testament
scholar, wrote, "Paul was closer to the church of Philippi than to any other
church." Listen to his loving terms in 4:1, "Therefore, my brothers, you
whom I love and long for, my joy and crown, that is how you should stand
firm in the Lord, dear friends!" In one verse they are called his brothers,
the ones he loves, his joy, his crown, and his friends. Here are 5 terms
of endearment in one verse.
So let's do a reality check, and face the facts. You are more likely
to be an optimist when you are dealing with people you love, and who love
you, then with people who rub you the wrong way, and irritate you by their
indifference or opposition. The fact that Paul is most optimistic with
those he most loves and enjoys makes it clear that relationship is a key
factor in the degree of your optimism about people. Your optimism about
God and His plan should not be affected. That should be on a high degree
of intensity no matter what. But on the human level the degree of optimism
is determined by the level of Christian love that exists between Christian
people.
One of the reasons Paul had such a good relationship with
this church is because it was mainly Gentiles, with only a few Jews, and
so his enemies who poisoned the minds of people against him did not have
much of a foundation in this church. There were only a handful of Jews,
for when Paul first came to Philippi there was even a synagogue, but the
people met by the river. Lydia, a Gentile, was converted, and the church
met in her home. Then the Philippian jailer and his family were converted,
and he too was a Gentile, and so the church had few people that Paul's enemies
could confuse.
In chapter 3 Paul still has to warn them about the
Jewish legalist who would take them back to the law, but it is a small part
of his letter compared to others. So we see that where Christians are on
the same wavelength as to theological convictions, there will be greater
peace, joy, and optimism. Paul is writing as a Christian friend, and not
as a theologian. The valuable lesson to see in all of this is that Christians
are like anyone else when it comes to relationships. When they have good
ones there is joy and positive vibes. If there is conflict and disagreement
over theology and values, there can be a wall that makes friendship difficult
if not impossible. That is why you have Christians who are friends, and
Christians who are only acquaintances. Then you have Christians that you
will not even bother to get to know better until heaven. There we will
all be able to love everyone in the body, just as Christ does. Until then,
like Paul, we will have better relationships with some than with others.
God used the bad things that happened to Paul in Philippi to bring forth
good, and so every memory of even his bad times made him joyful. He was
harassed by the demon possessed girl; he was arrested, beaten, and thrown
in prison, but God used all of this to lead the Philippian jailer and his
family to Christ. It was a bad day in the life of Paul, with a lot of rejection
and pain, but in the end it was one of the best days of his life, for a
whole pagan family was now in the kingdom of God, and a part of the Philippian
church. Paul was an optimist about what God could do with a day where all
was going wrong. He could say amen to the poet who wrote-
The inner side of every cloud
Is bright and shining.
I therefore turn my clouds about,
And always wear them inside out
To show the lining.
Paul did not pretend that all the bad stuff was good. Just because
God used all the bad to lead to a good end did not make the bad good or
right, and so even when it was all over, and the Philippian jailer and his
family were baptized, and the officials came to release Paul and Silas from
the jail, Paul protested the injustice of what had been done. He demanded
that the magistrates who put them in prison come and apologize for their
unjust decision. Paul did not say that it was okay because God used it
for good. It was still wrong, and a bad decision. It was an injustice
that needed to be corrected, and not merely forgotten because God used it
for good. This is important to see, so that we can recognize there is more
than one kind of optimist.
Wrong and evil and injustice are not
made good just because God can use them to achieve good goals. They are
still bad, and those who do them are held accountable. Evil does not become
good no matter what good God can bring out of it. It is still evil. A
superficial optimist makes a major mistake of thinking that if God uses
bad things for good, then the bad things become good. Wrong! Paul was
no superficial optimist that says, all is for the best. Those who think
this way deny the reality of evil and folly in man. If all is for the best,
then there is no evil, and we are compelled to be Christian Science followers,
who say all evil is in the mind.
Paul was not so superficial. In
2:21 Paul complains about the self-centeredness of Christians. Timothy
is unique in his loving care for others, but he writes, "For everyone looks
out for his own interest, not those of Jesus Christ." Paul does not say,
this is for the best, and will, in the long run, be a great blessing. It
is a defect in the body of Christ, and it is not a good thing. Paul did
not reject the reality of problems and weaknesses in the Christian life,
as if this was the best of all possible worlds. That would be a form of
blindness, and not optimism. He could be pessimistic about people without
losing his optimism in God, and God's ability to win the final victory even
with the obstacles of sinful people.
In 4:2 he pleads with Euodia
and Syntyche to settle their dispute peacefully, and asks the church to
help them do so. He does not say, a good fight will clean the air, and
is healthy for the body. Paul recognized that saints are not perfect, and
that they would get into conflict and would need to agree to disagree on
some things. He did not pretend that it was all for the best, but said
that Christians need to focus on their common bond in Christ. There would
be things in areas of individual differences where they would never agree.
Paul was optimistic that Christians could be one in Christ even though they
may disagree on many things.
Why is it important to see this distinction
between the realistic and the superficial optimist? For one thing, it makes
people feel guilty when they hate evil, if they feel it is contrary to Christian
optimism to do so. Some Christians delight in making other Christians feel
guilty for being pessimistic about man. This is superficial, for the Bible
is loaded with this kind of pessimism. "All have sinned and come short
of the glory of God." "There is none that does good." "All our righteousness
is as filthy rags." You could go on for pages with such negative quotes.
A Christian has every right to be pessimistic about man apart from the grace
of God.
The false prophets said all is well, and everything is for
the best. You are God's people, and God will bless you no matter how you
disregard His laws. This kind of superficial optimism is what lead to the
judgment of God's people time and time again. It is evil to be a shallow
optimist and seduce people into believing all is right when it is not.
Paul could, as an optimist, still face the reality of a fallen world where
plenty is wrong that he did not like, and he deals with it even in this
most optimistic of his letters. In 2:27 Paul writes of Epaphroditus, "Indeed
he was ill, and almost died. But God had mercy on him, and not on him only,
but also on me, to spare me sorrow upon sorrow." Paul was not so gullible
as to fall for the "Everything is best," philosophy. He says that he would
have cried his heart out had his friend died, for it would have been a tragic
loss, and he would not be comforted by some superficial theory that God
needed him more than he did. It would have broken his heart because even
an incurable optimist recognizes that evil and sorrow are a real part of
life, and you can't whitewash it with a pretense that it is all for the
best. Life is full of things that are not for the best. That is why there
is a Gospel to give men hope of escape from this fallen world, and to be
in a world where all will be for the best.
Rejoice in the Lord he repeats over and over, but he also says in 3:2,
"Watch out for the dogs-those men who do evil..." He does not say rejoice
in the world, the flesh, and the devil, which are the source of endless
problems. The optimist still has his pessimistic side, for the world of
evil and folly is a temporary reality that has to be faced. The saints
are fallible; the world has fallen; and the devil is alive and well. The
Christian who believes all is best in such a world is what we call a superficial
optimist, where he denies the reality of the very battle of good and evil.
This is as superficial as the little ditty that goes-
The optimist fell ten stories,
And at each window bar
He shouted to the people,
"I'm alright so far!"
This is as unrealistic as the man who, without a dime to his name,
went into a fancy restaurant and ordered an oyster dinner with the hope
of finding a pearl in an oyster to pay for the meal. It is as superficial
as the woman who reported her neighbor had been shot in a fight. "Were
the wounds fatal," her friend asked. "Only two of them," she said. "The
other three were just flesh wounds." This is the kind of person who will
say everything is for the best. Paul would not, for his was not a shallow
optimism. His was a deep optimism that says, even in a fallen world where
much is wrong, and far from the best, God is going to achieve His purpose,
and I am delighted to be part of His team, for they will be the ultimate
winners.
Paul's optimism was based on Christ and His victory over
all the forces of evil. It was not superficial like that of the student
who was asked, "Did you pass?" He responded, "No, but I was the highest
of those who failed." Paul could say, "I have failed. I am the least of
the Apostles, and not worthy to be an Apostle, but I can do all things through
Christ who strengthens me." He was a realistic optimist who could be pessimistic
about man, himself, and even the church, but always rejoicing because he
was optimistic about Christ and His victory.
Optimism is based on the broader scope. The detail of the moment may
be a pain, and a cloud on you day that rains on your parade. Pessimism is
based on the negative realities of the moment. Optimism is based on the
positive realities that will be forever. In Christ, the positives will last,
and all negatives will vanish. You need to see everything in the light of
the long run. Someone said that maybe all your dreams have not come true,
but then neither have all your nightmares. You have gone through a lot of
trials, but you have come through the storms into the light again, and have
enjoyed the day after many a troubled night. It is the long range look that
keeps you smiling when you face temporary pain.
It is easy enough to be happy
When life is a bright, rosy wreath,
But the man worth while
Is the man who can smile
When the dentist is filling his teeth.
Author unknown
Christian optimism is based on the big picture, and is dependent upon
patience. Love is patient, and patience is one of the great Christian virtues,
for only the patient can live on the long run level. The impatient are short
run people, and they are pessimistic, for in the short run you have to focus
on the failure and folly of man, rather than on the faithfulness of God.
Pessimists see only the viciousness of the battle, and not the victory
that makes the battle worth it. A neighbor said to a father who kept bailing
his son out of trouble, "If that were my boy, I would forget him." The father
replied, "If he were your boy I would forget him too, but he is my boy."
Love makes you more patient and longsuffering because love makes you more
optimistic. Take love out of any relationship, and you can count on pessimism
taking over.
Love is what made Paul so optimistic in relation to
the Philippians. Where love abounds optimism will thrive, and that is why
Paul writes in v. 9, "..and this is my prayer that your love may abound
more and more..." Christians who love are Christians who are fun to be with,
for they are, like Paul, incurable optimists. We cannot be like Paul in
many ways, but we can all be like him in this way. We can all be Christians
who are fun to be with. Ask yourself, am I a Christian who is fun to be
with because I focus on the goals of the true, and the beautiful, and I
tend to rejoice in life even when it is full of problems? Or, am I one of
those who is a gloomy Gus, or cloudy Claudia who tends to rain on everybody's
parade?
This letter of Philippians will change you if you let it, for it is
the most joyful book of the Bible. Chuck Swindoll's book on Philippians
is titled Laugh Again. In it he seeks to get Christians to stop being sour
pusses, and start being the kind of joyful people God wants them to be.
We all need to pray that God will help us learn the essence of this letter
and learn to be incurable optimists.