I'm So Mad I Could Spit
You shall not
murder. (Exodus 20:12)
This commandment is probably the universally accepted
commandment. In most cultures, around the world, the idea that murder and
killing are wrong is accepted to some degree. You may even be tempted to
skip over this article because you might say, “I know that – I believe that.”
But, don’t be too hasty! Let’s take a closer look at what the Bible says
about this commandment.
Murder or killing happens when a cause is elevated
above the value of a human life. Abortion is seen as okay when we place
our political views or our personal comfort above the life of an unborn
baby. Some might place a high value on money; and, if the stakes are high
enough, feel that murder is justified. Some, for power, will resort to taking
a life. I love police shows – especially the one with the court battles.
On a recent episode, a militia group felt that their government was tyrannical
and felt they had the right to rob a state run lottery headquarters and
kill three people. Their cause was considered more important than the lives
of three men.
One of the problems with this kind of thinking is that God
sent His Son to die to give us life – not just eternal life, but abundant
life here on earth (John. 10:10). He thinks our life is very special and
doesn’t allow us to devalue human life, just because our cause is important.
I want to direct your focus to the New Testament and specifically to the
Sermon on the Mount. In the sermon, Jesus talks about six Old Testament
laws. He says that the laws are not just about actions. Rather, they are
about the intent of the heart. In other words, sometimes thinking about
something is the same as committing the act. Specifically, about murder,
Jesus stresses that anger is not just a precursor to murder – In some cases
it IS murder.
You have heard that the ancients were told, 'You shall not
commit murder' and 'Whoever commits murder shall be liable to the court.'
"But I say to you that everyone who is angry with his brother shall be guilty
before the court; and whoever shall say to his brother, 'Raca,' shall be
guilty before the supreme court; and whoever shall say, 'You fool,' shall
be guilty enough to go into the fiery hell. (Matthew 5:21-22)
Jesus talked
about the heart and the different types of anger. Each of these is as serious
as actual murder-
1. Prolonged anger
We have heard the phrase “righteous”
anger. The trouble is usually that I feel my anger is always righteous and
everyone else’s anger is not. Paul said, “Be angry, and yet do not sin;
do not let the sun go down on your anger (Eph. 4:26). What is he saying?
Don’t prolong your anger. You WILL get angry – but don’t nurse it, don’t
fuel it.
Sometimes reconciliation is possible; but sometimes it is not.
The other person might not be willing or ready. What do we do? Keep being
angry or move on? I believe some times we have to FIDO – Forget It and Drive
On.
Some translations say “angry WITHOUT Cause.” Someone said, “There
are many reasons for anger, but very few are good ones.” We must ask ourselves,
“Why are we angry?” Is it because someone hurt our feelings? Didn’t they
hurt our feelings because of our pride? Is it because someone infringed
upon on our rights? Do we have any rights if we are children of God? Is
it because we didn’t get our way? Again, isn’t that because of our pride?
Many times, if we take a hard look at our anger, we would see that we really
don’t have a solid reason to be angry.
Prolonged anger becomes bitterness;
and the Bible calls bitterness a root (Heb. 12:15). It’s easy to uproot
a seed of anger; but once it grows roots, it is not only difficult to remove
but also sprouts all kinds of other fruit.
Don’t allow anger to germinate.
Get rid of it quickly.
2. Valuating Anger
The phrase ‘raca’ means “empty-headed
one.” Some translators say it means, “to spit upon.” It is what you would
say to someone when you are angry and want to devalue them. The English
language has many variations upon this, but maybe one the closest is the
valuation, “air-head.” To say ‘raca’ to someone is to de-value them because
they didn’t do what you wanted or do it the way you wanted them to. To gain
credibility, when you are angry, you call them a humiliating name that attacks
their credibility. What someone is saying, with this phrase is, “If you
disagree with me, then you must be substandard.”
This level of anger is
classing someone because we are mad at them.
3. Judgmental Anger
To
say “you fool” is to say, “You do not deserve to live.” It goes from de-valuing
them to passing a judgment upon them. How do we say this? We say “Well…we
just won’t talk to them will we? We’ll pretend like they don’t exist—we’ll
make it tough on them—we’ll just gossip about them until everyone knows.”
Jesus said that judging is wrong (Matt. 7)
God recognizes anger as sin
at all the various levels. It’s not just when we actually kill someone that
God is displeased. You see, our temper is not a personality trait – it is
a spiritual weakness. Our anger is not an ethnic trait – it is sin. It is
a choice we make. Proverbs 19:11 says:
A man's discretion makes him slow
to anger, And it is his glory to overlook a transgression.
Anger usually
comes from unholy attitudes like pride. We say, “Who are they to do that
to me?” Anger originates from selfishness when we say, “I’m not getting
my way…” In other words, anger often originates from other festering sin.
James 1:19-20 gives us some simple advice:
But let everyone be quick to
hear, slow to speak and slow to anger; for the anger of man does not achieve
the righteousness of God.
We have to learn to settle things quickly. We
can’t prolong fights and nurse anger. Someone said, “Anger is a wind that
blows out the candle of the mind.” Usually when we are angry, we are not
thinking. You shall not murder, but you shall also not prolong anger and
allow yourself to sin.
Karl J. Forehand, 2001